I screwed up with my boyfriend and said some very nasty things to him. I had been drinking heavily and had a lot on my mind and it really got out of hand. I don't remember exactly what I said except that he has only child syndrome (which isn't that bad), but he has said I said some really hurtful things. I had so much to drink, I don' t remember. We broke up. I broke up with him. I have appologized and begged for him back. He said he would think about it, but I haven't talked to him since Sunday. I don't know what to do. I know I can not expect him to get back with me, but I screwed up, and I'm not proud of it. What can I do?? Help me, I'm desparate. I wrote him a letter and mailed it, he should get it tomorrow. I need do save us, I love him so much. We have only been dating a year. Breaking bricks like a Karate Master for the beginner.::
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if you are so obssessed with him then find a time to talk to him privately. maybe then he will understand.
Well(sighs) ....first off Drinking is not a healthy coping mechanism to begin with. You need to find another solution for that because that can get worse. Secondly if he truly loves you as you do, then he most likely will come back. Then if you are together again find better ways to communicate about things that bother you. So that way you can prevent escalating blow ups. If he doesn't want you then you will learn from your mistakes and move on. Hope it works out and Good Luck!!!!!!!
Right now he just wants to see you suffer.
As long as you continue to beg he will not come back. Stop begging! You're a HUMAN being and you made a mistake. You've apologized already and He HEARD YOU. He's just being a Jacka** right now. Stop contacting him and watch. Hell be wondering if you gave up and that will make him get over himself and call. Let me know what happens.
i knew u screwed up but he has to forgive u. if he doesn't then he's the one with the problem not u.
we're here for u. i m if u need help e-mail me.
He said that he'll think about it? It sounds like you love him more than he does. You should have mentioned why you were drinking heavily. Drinking heavily is stupid. Hurtful things? Wow, how hurtful must they have been? I find that no reason for to say "I'll think about it." Love doesn't brink to an end with, "I'll think about it."
well tell him you love him and ask him if he loves you back?.. if he says yes say well whats keeping you from me im sorry i cant help that i was a huge *** whole to you sweetie but i was i was drunk what more do you exspect from me??? i want to be with you.. what ever is holding you back from me is ridiculous cause i care and feel bad and obviously there is something more than your willing to admit.,.
haha i have been in this situation once or twice but saying all that helped best for me.
hope it works out iv been with my guy for over a yr and a half and iv never had such great feelings.
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