So I am a teenage mother. My daughter is almost 2 and I am 16 (almost 17). My daughters father is 23 and he does spend a lot of time with her. He is a good father. I was talking to my aunt the other day and she was mad at me because I don't make him pay child support. He spend a lot of time with her so I didn't think it would be nice of me to beg him for money and my daughter and I do ok. My aunt says that I should do it for my daughter to be a good mother. What do you all think? Big Debate: Should United pay the full asking price for Carlos ::
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If you are not getting money from your baby's father, then who is paying for everything?
Your parents? The State?
The people who should be paying for everything is you and the father, so yes, you need to suggest that he start paying for things such as clothes, food, shoes and other expenses.
Even if you don't use the money for those things because you pay for them, save the money in an account for your daughter's education.
depends y he is not around fulltime are u going to move in with him when u are old enough or have u ended the relationship
You should ask for money this child is his responsibility and yours. But you should not have got pregnant in the first place your way to young. Please ask him for money.
There will come a time where the baby needs more and you may want to get ready for that in case you need him to pay for more stuff for your baby
this is why teens shouldnt be having kids......they dont understand what is necessary to take care of a child......you do not BEG him to pay child support you TELL him. it is his responsibility just as much as much you are.... but you also must be careful because technically if you do file for child support there is a chance that he could get in trouble because of the fact that you are and were underaged at the time of pregnancy and to get someone as young as you pregnant when you are that much older could be considered sagitory rape even if the sex was consential..... be careful.... and next time please date someone your own age.... your daughter deserves more than "your doing ok" she deserves all the support she can get. and he needs to fess up and take his responsibility seriously. DVD-Cloner II Refund Help - First Post - Club CDFreaks - Knowledge ::
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Wow, it sounds like you guys have made this as good a situation as possible.
I do believe he should be paying child support, and it should be in writing so that you and your daughter are protected. Not sure where you live, but I do know in CA they take into consideration not only income, but time spent with the child, too. I wouldn't look at it as having to "beg" him for money, but for him to be able to provide for his child. (disclaimer: I am NOT saying that only men should pay c.s.!)
Perhaps you could compromise: would you feel more comfortable if it were put into a college fund for her?
Anyway, I hope you can continue to keep up a good relationship with her father... it's much better for the kids in the long run!!
Good luck!
Actually hotwheel if she files he can not get in trouble once a female gets pregnant granted yes she was a minor and he was an adult at the time the woman is considered emancipated and a legal adult in the eyes of the law once that baby is born.
It does not matter how much time she spends with her father. Money and time are two completely different things. You need money to take care of her. Daycare is expensive and so are pull-ups. Food, clothing, a decent place to raise a child. He needs to pay child support. If he's just spending time with her he's only half-*ssing being a father.
thimk when he is with her does he pay for cloths that stay at ur place what about food what about daycare if she goes?
if he does things financially when he has her let he be if not ask ask ask
i have a 2 year old son and he can be expensive and at 16 you should look at studding or working to make a home for her thats all yourse no i dont beleive he should puy a roof over ur head but he can help with the little things like buying nappies when he has her and letting u keep the rest
look after her the way u wont to
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