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My ex & I broke up because hes gone back to university 3 hours away & feels guilty being away from me all the time, especially when he cant come back sometimes and says it will be too hard on us.He is very busy & thinks Id be happier alone, he finished with me because he thought moving to uni was making me unhappy.
He has told me many times hes not over me & loves me, didnt wanna break up, wants to be with me but too hard etc etc.
We both need space but Im wondering if you think hell find it easier to get over me without me around, or just start to realise what hes done, he already knows hes made a mistake but in an arguement said ' i miss you but I havent woken up in the morning and thought what the hell have I done' . Miss me or forget me?

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Im scared that too much space will make him forget me .
If it were you, what would happen to you to make you think ' what have i dont ' . My step sister told me when it happened to her she realised she hadnt been listening all day and it suddnely popped into her head/

lol he doesnt feel guilty for being away.. hes getting play and that would make him feel guilty knowing you are dedicated. stay away. stay alive

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Move on.
That's what i have got to say. Life is the word which means to move on and never to look back. Past is past and is gone forever than why are you sooo over him till now.
Don't you get it, you two broke up and its no use crying tears now. what is done is done and it cannot be undone. so forget him and look towards present and think about your future, your own life and work.
I am sorry to hurt you but sometimes truth have to be told no matter what.
Now is the time to get over it and live your own life and forget your ex.
Wishing you a very happy life :) Cheers !!!!

I don't think anyone can really you tell how he is feeling, but him. If he truely cares about you he will wake-up one day and know that he made a mistake. I would give him his space and let him come to you, not the other way around. Guys like being chased and as long as you do that your feeding his ego. If he truely loves there is never enough space that will make them forget!!!!

I'm in a long distance relationship......it's not easy. She lives 5 hrs. away from me. I make the drive every other weekend because I love her and will make any sacrifice to spend time with her. From the sounds of it he's ready to move on but still cares enough about you to make up excuses instead of telling you the truth because he don't want to hurt you. Being only 3 hrs. apart is not a good enough reason to give up true love.

He definitely misses you, but the question is, do you miss him just as much. do you like him enough to move there? Enough to try a long distance relationship? What if you say we can both take advantage of this time to grow and try new things and take some risks with our lives and in 4 years (give him a year in the real world) if both of you aren't married, you try to find eachother and try again.

He can love you and miss you AND not want to be with you right now. He doesn't want a relationship right now. Look at what he's said. He's trying to make this easier on you. Very few people are good at breaking up. Most of us hang on when we shouldn't (I mean both of you here). He will never forget you. I still remember my high school boyfriend and he was an idiot. I never forgot him. You will not forget someone who was a big part of your life. You may out grow them and move on, but you won't forget them. It'll be easier for you to get over him without him around. Focus on you. You can't change him, his decision or the way he feels. Worry about you.

Edit: To the guy below who said that 3 hours isn't that long, you're right. I don't know why I didn't think to mention that too. My boyfriend lives 24 hours away (by car) or a minimum of 2 flights (there are no direct flights) at about $500. When it's right, you'll make it work. I'm thinking you're still pretty young. Let him go. If it's meant to be, he'll come back! But, by then you might have met someone even better. I "let" my last boyfriend go and it was the best thing I ever did. He came back, but by then I knew I could do better. And I did. I now have an amazing boyfriend (even though he does live 24 hours away).

It is said a persons' abscence makes the heart love them more.In many cases this is true.But when you really love someone, even college is not forever.He thinks you would be happier alone, but what do you think about it? If you dont want to break up , tell him clearly.Many people face seperation from their beloved, for school, or jobs, etc...But when you find someone you truly love, you cant just throw it all away.People wait for each other all the time.It should be decided by both of you.Love is too precious to throw away.

you gotta let go sweetie...
let it go....
hard as it seems
cant hold on forverr
time will tell how people truly feel