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| They're trying to make me feel better, its just getting worse? | | Published by: mike 2009-01-07 |
| | my boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago. i'm hurting soo bad! and all of my friends just keep calling him a douche bag, a ******, an a$$hole, and i can do much better. but the sad truth his, i only want him. he made me fall in love, he cheered me up all the time, he always made me smile, we would stay up til 2 in the morning talking even though we have nothing to talk about, we would laugh together even if something isn't funny. everyone tells me if we get back together then it's meant to be, and he and i both know we will, i just want him back now!! it hurts seeing him smile at me and knowing it doesn't mean anything anymore! someone took a book from me today and my ex was keeping it away too and he kept holding onto my hand and i kept thinking he'll never do that again. i want him back but i'm sure he's over me. we fought a lot but i didn't care, i just wanted to be with him! and i want him back! what can i do?? if i tell him that i still want to be with him i know ill get hurt cause he'll tell him he doesn't want me!
Smile back at him in a shy way... Give him attention. when he is not looking look at him. He should feel your galnce and turn away once you have caught his eye.. after about a week or whenever feels right for you... keep staring at him make sure it is in a quite place you are working alone and together. Keep his glance and smile shly. He should walk over to you and then who knows what could happen!
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Here's the simple answer (in question form) ... Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? Or that you fight with "a lot"?
I guess I'm assuming from the tone of the message that you are in HS?! If that's incorrect, I apologize for the remainder of this message. I know, it seems hard to believe, but some day the world of high school will seem so small compared to what is waiting outside those double doors.... wait until you go to college, start working, meeting new people, experiencing life abundant. And I know you think I'm totally full of sh*t right now, because I thought the same thing when someone said it to me ... I lived it too. I ran into my old high school gf the other day (and it's not been THAT long ago) and it was amazing how much we had changed... our life views are way different than what they were when we were together in HS. Let's put it this way. If I was single and had just met her that day, there's no way we would've even dated, but we were in love and dated for 4 years in HS. Had our relationship made it through HS, there's no way it would have lasted long afterward or through college Life's funny that way ... so just a little advice, instead of desperately seeking to get back with this boy that seems to like to play heart games, take peace and patience with the bigger plan and purpose that God has in store for you. Heinlein They - NexTag.com::
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welcome to the realities of life my friend! you cant beg a man to want you. men are pigs. just remember one thing: TIME HEALS EVERY WOUND. get over him and then when he sees you happy and no longer miserable that will make him miserable and he will come crawling back...and then you can tell him to **** off. grow some confidence girlfriend its over
The best way to get a guy back is to act like you don't want him back. Go out; have fun; Keep busy so you don't mope; let him see how little you really need him. Maybe even try dating a bit. But never let anyone know that you miss him in the least or it will get back to him. Men are strange creatures and often want what they can't have. Even more so if they feel it was theirs in the past. It may take a while, but you just hang in there and enjoy life while you wait for him to come to his senses. It took 5 months for my ex to come to his senses. But the truth is by that time if he hadn't I could have moved on without as much pain. Plus we had new things to talk about and I had some new hobbies and friends. It was hard, but worth it in more than one way.
me and my ex went out for a year and a half. i was 15. i "thought" i was "in love" with him. but i was not, which i learned shortly after we broke up.
anyways he broke up with her in the beginning of december. i was devastated. and i wanted him back more then anything. we talked still sometimes after we broke up so i had "false hope" about us getting back together. still having contact with him made me still hold on. well sure enough 2 weeks later we went on x-mas break and i didnt see him for two weeks. this was about 3 or 4 weeks after we broke up. I GOT OVER HIM OVER BREAK!!
i never thought i would, but surprisingly to EVERYONE i was completely over him!
once he realized iwas done with him, he wanted me back!! haha but at that point i was to happy being single and enjoying life without him.
trust me hunny, you will get over him. just do not have any contact with him and give it time.
now about 9 or 10 months later i have been dating a great guy since august! i couldnt be happier. i like him more then i ever liked the ex
tell him how you feel and that you cant live with out him in your life
first don't let him flirt with you anymore.... plan a trip somewhere far so you can relax and get your head back together. don't show him that you are desperate for him... guys like girls that they know they can't have so just get your mind off him and time will pass, and you'll be over it.
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