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A while back i had some words with my Husbands family. Some people would make racial remarks not towards me but they might as well have. I wouldnt say nothing until it finally just made me explode and I did finally say something. I would post on my myspace stuff, not saying any names, and they were trying to find out who. Well Me and some of his family would have conversations and the topic of my stepdaughter would come up and everyone agreed how she didnt look like my husband or their family and that everyone was pretty sure she wasnt his. ( Especially that the mom said she slept with someone else and that she might not be his!) Well One holiday we were all supposed to go to his aunts and I refused to stay in the house my SIL was staying because of her stupid comments (and she was pregnant by someone my race) and we didnt have the money to get a hotel. Well we didnt go since we couldnt afford to go. Well my inlaws have a business and usually pay for stuff when we go somewhere. I honestly didnt feel like seeing her face so i didnt want to go and i hate asking them for money. Well that weekend, I was the big bad person that controls my husband and poor baby cant do nothing with his family.. After that weekend they were posting bulletins and saying how I shouldnt be with a man with kids if i dont like kids and how the stepdaugher IS HIS DAUGHTER... I thought that was just some bullshit and how could they just change the way they thought on a weekend especially when his family turned against me because I finally spoke up and refused to have them disrespect me anymore.
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Well since then I've tried to keep my peace and don't associate with no one and since then deleted myspace.
I decided to reopen it but this time not adding none of this family and just having my close friends and family because that's how I like to keep in touch with people. I used another name different zip and I even tried looking for me and I couldnt. WELL people that have nothing to do just be in other people's business found me, like the nosiest cousin he has. She even will sit at her window with her binoculars and spy on passing cars and i dont' know what else.. ( And we all live out in the boonies!!!) Well the one day I did put my real name, she texted me, "when did you get a myspace?". Well I didnt respond. I since them changed age, e mail address and anything else possible. This ***** still found me and this morning, I guess she finally just got tired and asked to be added...with a message " we ARE family"
I DO NOT wAnt to add her.___ MY Question is what can I say to not be rude but let her know that since what happened last time I rather not add certain people..___
Why so afraid to be rude? You have to admit, making an outright disrespectful comment will get the little c*nt off your back. Or just say 'no' and threaten with a restraining order. Then accuse her of being a lesbian and stalking you. Then plant a pair of your lacy panties in her car and get your husband to find them, then you have the evidence. No one will question it.
just tell them way you feel things people
You can deny her request and I am sure that she will get the hint.
She is probably finding you through one of your friends.
Regardless of what you do. Myspace allows you to create BLOGS that only certain friends on your list can see. Private Blogs. When you say things on there just set it to private, or dont say them at all. If you are saying negative things on your myspace about family or anything... technically it is not this girls fault that she can see it. Nor is it wrong that anyone else can see it. It is the INTERNET. The whole world can see it. So best not put it online if you don't want people finding it.
To solve your problem... 1. if you are really just using myspace to communicate with your friends, find another way to communicate with them. Instant Messaging, txt Messaging, email... their are a million ways to talk to people. 2. Be straight. Your myspace is only for your friends. Your family can call you on the phone. 3. dont say anything or do anything on the internet that will cause you problems in the future...
Seriously though. you should probably kill your myspace account and never look back.
I think you need to be firm and start telling people exactly what you think. You shouldn't have to hide your MySpace account. If they have a problem with it, so what? You are free to live your life how you want. Don't forget that!
your man needs to have your back first and farmost!
Set your profile to private and do not add people you do not want to access your information.
I cannot stand lots of drama, and I had to deal with stuff like that for the first few years of my marriage. _____ My husband had to put my in-laws in their places before they stopped their bullshit.
If confronted again with their intolerance, tell them, "People do not choose to be born with blue eyes, 10 toes, or specific skin color. All of those things are beyond their control, and it makes me feel very uncomfortable when you put people down that way."
You cannot control what others do/say, but you are in control of what you do/say.
Good luck!
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