UPDATE: Four of five drug defendants found guilty : Local News :: what did your husband do about his family letting you take the fall? They would make themselves obvious, especially if they could hide behind a keyboard. http://www.courierpress.com/news/2008/aug/21/four-five-men-found-guilty-federal-drug-trialHOME | Ok... to make a long story short this has been an ongoing issue that I thought was resolved, but my husband who was an occasional smoker (never more than 1-2 times a week if that) told me he was going to stop because it bothered me. He has stopped for the most part, but today I just found some marijuana hidden in the house that he must have bought. What would you do?
1. Ignore it, and wait till the subject comes up to discuss it.
2. Hide it and see if he asks about it.
3. Get mad and argue about it as soon as he gets home.
4. Something else.
Concord Monitor - Pot houses had been under watch:: Several days later, the police found 1,400 marijuana plants at an Epsom home hiding spot on the roof, Ha was seen driving north, toward Londonderry, http://www.concordmonitor.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20061220612200335&template=singleHOME | Political Punch:: hiding her as if she isnt strong enough to handle media because How can you love America when your husband was a member of AIP secessionist party? http://blogs.abcnews.com/politicalpunch/2008/09/palin-media-a-2.htmlHOME |
I would confront him with it simply because it puts you at risk for arrest if for whatever reason the house was raided. If you have children, there is a risk you could lose custody. The RICO laws are also nasty if he is a habitual offender or the cops find enough drugs - you could lose your house, car or other property.
Personally I wouldn't care what he chose to do to himself, but I would be upset that he put me, our property or our children at risk for his pleasure. Tell him if he MUST then he MUST keep it away from you, your children and your property - house, car, etc. Then it becomes all his problem.
Smoke it with him.
Ask him about it,& go from there.If he's selling it,that would be a problem,since it's illegal.
I would ask him.. why he tells you one thing but then does the other. It means you can't trust his words and this is not a good basis for any marriage...if this is not sorted out once and for all..you will continue to have these sort of problems throughout your marriage. There has to be trust, honesty and most of all clear communication.
Keep quite!
give it back quickly & quietly~
have a conversation about, and don't be so
hard on him.
If he works and takes care of business!
Then what r you complaining about!
Address the issue and stand your ground.
Confront him about it.
tell him you found it and ask him why he had to hide it from you even though you know he knows you dont like it
confront him about it, but not angrily AT FIRST, because he'll just get mad and the yelling will start.
You could, after you had this discussion, dump it down the toilet while he's watching to prove a point.
i say smoke some...maybe you'll lighten up a lil...sounds like you're mad that you can't smoke, not cuz he is...
explain to him that you found it but tell him you love him and you want him to be honest with you because it makes you feel sad because you dont know what else he is lying about. but dont hide it from him or play games because it could turn into a fight
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