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Why do you think I have not been posting here? Each new post would E. Throw another temper tantrum and pick one of the above. Right now, E looks good.
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Im in my forties, yet I have huge temper-tantrums, mainly when Im alone and on the party lines. For those of you who are new, the party lines are where you call and try to meet people. I often record a greeting and then wait for messages. When an hour has passed and Ive gotten little to no messages, I begin to scream obcenities at the phone. I often scream "NOOOO!!!!!!" and start literally crying my eyes out. I will shout "Dammit, come on! Why am I not getting any messages?!" And slam my hands down on the desk. My neighbors have complained repeatledly about my loud noises in the apartment.
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I understand why toddlers have tantrums, but what, if anything, can or should I if anything, can or should I do to prevent or stop the worst of the tantrums?
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I already have a college degree, why do I need to go back to school? What can I do about tantrums? How can I keep track of all the after-school activities?
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My question is- Why am I only having these childlike tantrums on the party line? In real life Im fine- I dont have fits a lot. But alone in my bedroom on the phone- if no one hits me up, I begin screaming and bawling my eyes out. I even threatened to kill myself- and over a party line! Why am I doing this? Tantrums::
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You're not alone. I have frequent tantrums...alone or with my significant other. We need to find a healthy outlet for our anger. We get frustrated too easily and don't know how to deal with it. I would give up the party line and try to meet people in other ways. I get angry after playing World of Warcraft on the computer and end up hitting my boyfriend. We're just not happy, darn it!
You are describing classic signs of borderline personality disorder.
The condition is treatable. If you want to regain control of your life, dialectical behavior therapy is the way to go.
Best of luck to you,
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Hey Gail, I ain't no expert but I think you have a type of mental disease. It could get serious if left untreated. I tend to snap at things as well (most people do), but to snap over something that 'non serious' is a troubling issue.
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I suggest seeing a doctor to further the diagnosis.
just calm down!!!!!! It's okay!
Try to face a whole size mirror when your on the phone, so you can reflect to yourself when your alone and on the phone. And pray....
try relaxing more and think about something good about the
person your angry with
You are lonely. Start frequenting strip clubs...those girls will show you the attention you desire for a small fee. You should want to live, darnit!
Its sounds like you have problems.You are very insecure.
Maybe you're just making up in private, what you feel like doing in public or holding too much inside.
You are so desperate for attention that when you don't get it you become really insecure about your self as attractive. You really need to work on why you're so desperate for attention from some one else!!! In order to be attractive and confident to other's you have to portray that socially and privately in order to internalize it and come to truly believe it. You might also think about seeking help for your insecurities.
the party line is probably a substitute for not being seen throwing a tantrum out in public. Immaturity is a good place to start, and the insecurity that motivates you. The crying part I'm sure is a sign of the depression that is following the anxiety. Rules of society say the you must be as the majority or be labelled as a dysfunctional piece. Throwing a tantrum is harmless to others unless you throw items like children do toys. Anxiety is a culprit and this can be traced to your childhood, possibly too much parental protectiveness. Seek counseling there is a good prognoses on this disorder. Good Luck.
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Are you really depressed?? Try seeking live company..not phone party lines..get out and meet people..volunteer, take a class, go to church.. you spend too much time alone
A deep sense of disappointment. You are sitting around waiting for someone to contact you and when they don't you are angry and hurt, you are craving instant satisfaction. Move on to something else. Good luck - I still have tantrums about random things too. God help my family if I hate my haircut.
You are indulging your fantasy life - your party-line dealings are not "real life" so you aren't applying normal social constraints. I would quit using the phone for that purpose immediately, and also seek some psychological help.
o.O ok...
because you want, its only human nature.
It's normal for you to be upset over no one contacting you for dating but it's not normal for you to throw a tantrum. The thing is... the tantrums may be the reason why no one is contacting you. You are so desperate and so needy for someone to contact you that you may be, in fact, scaring people off.
You will feel when a tantrum is coming on - you may get sweaty or really hot, you'll get angry or upset. You should walk away from the party line and cool down outside. Or better yet, stop doing it altogether. It seems like you're obsessed with it and it might be best to just take a break from it for awhile. If the tantrums continue to other parts of your life then you should talk to a counselor or therapist about why you get so upset.
Just because no one leaves you a message on a party line doesn't mean that no one wants to date you or that you are undesirable. Honestly, I don't know anyone who uses a party line so it could just be that a low number of people are using it. You could always try www.eharmony.com or another dating service that tries to pair you with a real mate.
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