Ok I'm gonna try to be as brief as possible. I'm 28 and my gf is 28 also. Bout 6 years ago we were in a relationship but she cheated and it ended. Recently we decided to get back together. I thought that I had gotten over the trust issues but I haven't. Besides she still moves suspicously at times (at least to me) and I wonder if she's hiding something from me (or if it;s just my imagination) but at the same time she's pressuring me to marry her cause she says I'm the only one she loves. I'm afraid to be hurt again but I'm just stalling on why I cant marry right now. What do i do?
Most of the time women get a certain age they think that the best thing to do is get married. If you don't want to don't it will not be the best thing for you. Go to couples counseling because you two have some unresolved trust issues you need to get straightened out before your relationship goes any further.
Just because she made a mistake once doesn't mean she will do it again. You feel like she might be hiding something from you then you should go with your instincts. You could talk to her. Let her know how you feel.
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why the pressure to marry? Ok Im gonna try to be as brief as possible ::
move is stupid and if you cant trust her then you prolly shouldnt marry her. maybe you think she is moving suspicously because you are worried about
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I am curious why she is in a hurry to get married. Don't rush to get married. Especially if you have these feelings. I wish you luck with this.
maybe you think she is moving suspicously because you are worried about her cheating again...
watching her every move is stupid and if you cant trust her then you prolly shouldn't marry her..
if your not ready just tell her no and if she doesn't like it then she can go find someone else right?
and im sure you'll find someone better for you!
Just tell her the truth. I mean seriously, tell her you are concerned and that you need more time. That you still are having difficulty. I don't know I think it's selfish of her to expect so much because she was the one who cheated on you in the first place.
In my case I would never get with someone who broke my trust unless they drastically changed. I think don't get anything you will regret later.
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